Pre-K

Growing Reader

11 Books That Model Empathy and Compassion for Young Readers

by Charnaie Gordon

Illustration: Penelope Dullaghan

Lately, it seems whenever I turn on the news or open social media I learn that another tragedy has occurred somewhere in the world. Each time, I am overcome with feelings of sadness, frustration, and downright hopelessness. I try to think of how I can help make a difference in some small way, but usually end up falling short.

At moments like these, it feels even more important to have conversations with the children in our lives about topics like empathy, compassion, kindness, and inclusion. The interesting thing about empathy, though, is that it’s not easy to teach. Yet there are some ways to instill and inspire it. One way is to read books that touch on the subject and can spark a conversation about what it means to be empathetic and compassionate. The following books can help you do just that.

  • Last Stop on Market Street

    by Matt de la Peña, illustrated by Christian Robinson

    CJ’s Nana helps him see beauty in his surroundings, whether it’s on the bus or at the soup kitchen they head to every Sunday afternoon. As Nana says, “Sometimes when you’re surrounded by dirt, C.J., you’re a better witness for what’s beautiful.”

    CJ's grandmother helps remind CJ, and little readers, that everyone we encounter has talents, skills, and their own story, but we must be kind and open-minded in order to hear it.
    (Ages 3 - 5)

  • Why Am I Me?

    by Paige Britt, illustrated by Selina Alko and Sean Qualls

    This gorgeously illustrated picture book with sparse text follows two children riding the subway on their way home from school one day. As they ride, they wonder about themselves and about the different kinds of people they’re surrounded by. The beautifully textured artwork by Qualls and Alko captures the mood and feel of the diverse city in which the two children live. A great resource to help teach children about the value of compassion, connectedness, and diversity.
    (Ages 4 - 8)

  • Come With Me

    by Holly M. McGhee, illustrated by Pascal Lemaître

    I think this story is so great! It’s about a little girl who is saddened by the news she sees on TV. She asks her parents what she can do to make the world a better place. Inspired and perhaps impressed by his daughter’s question, the father takes her on a walk through the city, greeting everyone he sees with a kind smile and a tip of his hat. The little girl is inspired by her parents’ gentle regard for the world, and invites the boy next door to come outside and walk the dog with her. I appreciate how this book communicates that small acts of kindness and bravery are what ultimately makes the world a better place. Simply put, the kind things we do matter no matter how big or small.
    (Ages 5 - 8)

  • Most People

    by Michael Leannah, illustrated by Jennifer E. Morris

    I still believe most people in this world are kind — and that’s the overall message of this heartwarming book. Little readers follow two families (one Black family and one White family) from sunrise to sunset as they interact with various other people in their community. Along the way, they see people doing both good and bad things.

    The book features diverse characters with different skin tones and physical abilities. I love the sense of community and messages of kindness embedded in the story. I also like how the book explains with simple reasoning that people who do bad things can change — “there is a seed of goodness inside {each person} waiting to sprout.”

    The author’s note acknowledges that while children need to be careful of strangers, they also need to know that most people are good, kind, and helpful. Our children don’t deserve to be overly fearful of the world despite what they may see in the media.
    (Ages 4 - 8)

  • Lovely

    by Jess Hong

    Lovely is a debut picture book written and illustrated by Jess Hong. It’s a tribute to all the things that make us different from one another.

    The book starts off by asking the question: "What is lovely?" The simple answers let little readers know that lovely is different and comes in many forms. All people are lovely in their own way.

    What sets this book apart are its colorful and striking illustrations. Young readers will see all kinds of different, lovely people: a little girl with two different eye colors, a child wearing braces, a person in a wheelchair, someone wearing a prosthetic leg, and more.
    (Ages 4 - 8)

  • One

    by Kathryn Otoshi

    Using the colors of the rainbow, One shows how a strong personality can impose beliefs and opinions onto others through force and fear. Red has decided that it is better than Blue, Yellow, Green, Purple, and Orange. That is until One comes along and stands up to Red. What happens next illustrates how a band of people (or kids) can stand up to negativity, intimidation, and bullying.

    Some of the topics touched upon in this book are: bullying, self-acceptance, bravery, forgiveness, dealing with emotions, empathy, doing the right thing, and standing up for yourself. The overall message: everyone counts!
    (Ages 4 - 8)

  • The Smallest Girl in the Smallest Grade

    by Justin Roberts, illustrated by Christian Robinson

    This story serves as a wonderful reminder of how important each person is in making the world a happier place — even if you’re the smallest person in your grade like little Sally McCabe.

    With rhyming text and colorful illustrations, it has themes of bullying, injustice, courage, empathy, and finding your voice.
    (Ages 3 - 5)

  • Each Kindness

    by Jacqueline Woodson, illustrated by E.B. Lewis

    This is not a book with a happy ending that comes packaged up in a nice, neat bow. It’s heartbreaking, but so powerful and poignant for upper elementary, middle grade, and perhaps even some adult readers, too. It teaches important lessons about kindness and thoughtfulness, and is great for fostering open-ended discussions with older children about things like acceptance, bullying, consequences, making a good first impression, taking responsibility for your actions, feelings, and compassion. I adore the lesson about kindness that the teacher in the book gives to her students, likening kindness to a pebble in the water that sends out ripples.
    (Ages 5+)

  • Peace Is an Offering

    by Annette LeBox, illustrated by Stephanie Graegin

    This book simply and beautifully illustrates how we can share peace with one another. Little readers will easily understand that they can perform small acts of kindness every day like bringing someone a muffin or wiping someone’s tears. There is so much more to this book, though, than just providing a list of peaceful ideas. Children will not only come away with a better understanding that peace is all around them, they may also feel empowered to create it themselves.
    (Ages 3 - 5)

  • Pass It On

    by Sophy Henn

    This is such a happy and joyful book about being kind, paying it forward, and passing it on! The illustrations are so bright and cheerful. I love the overall message it sends to children ... kindness begets kindness. The text is large and sparse which makes it great for reading aloud to smaller readers. The story and vivid illustrations evoke feelings of pure joy and encourage sharing and kindness.
    (Ages 3 - 7)

  • We’re All Wonders

    by R.J. Palacio

    In this book, readers are reminded that we can choose to be kind to one another rather than cruel. Born with a facial deformity, Auggie knows that he looks different from other children, but is hopeful that others will see past his differences and appreciate all the other things that make him unique. This is a powerful story of accepting others for who they really are and not judging them based on how they look. The illustrations are bright and stunning to hold the attention of young readers. This book is also a great resource to use in a classroom setting to help teach kindness by igniting conversations of when children have felt different, how they feel when others stare or poke fun at them, and what would they do if someone was making fun of one of their friends or family members. A great addition to any home or classroom library.
    (Ages 4 - 8)

What other books would you add to this list? Share with us in the comments below.

Comments
+